Nurture our life and GROW.. !!

There are phases in life when everything in life backfires on you. You are blamed even for being true, for honesty, for dedication and passion!! And you are in so much bad state that you look out of the window and think "Is there a tomorrow?"

We are responsible for all the actions we take and we should not blame others for that !!

But at the end of the day few things everyone should remember :

1. Stand by those, who stand by you through all the odds !! when there is a confusion, just follow your heart because that organ knows what you really want. It knows about your happiness (i am again being selfish here because if you are not happy, you ruin others too in that)

2. Be True to yourself first. True person always has courage to stand in front of the mirror and say 'God, i am a strong human being and i shall stand by truth always; no matter how hard it may be'.

3. Stand by those who hold you when you are failing. (I am not talking about family here. Every family loves their kids/ siblings equally. No matter what they will always). Its about those friends who stand by you in hospital if you are too sick, holding you when you feel shattered and despair. If you dont have a single one you can rely on 'Boss, you are in trouble' .

There are lot many learnings but i believe these are the basics i can think off.

This blog is for all those friends who have held me in tough times always. Thanks Ashok Sharma (Jadoooooooo... ), Gurpreet kaur (Guru), Atul Sharma (Jidds). Love you all !!

Fate .. Is something a person writes by Oneself!!

People say things are not working out , probably thats my destiny. Everyday we blame things which dont result in our favor as fate. But i suppose Fate is something which we write by ourselves.. We say Sachin Tendulkar is God of Cricket, but we ignore the effort Sachin put in when he used to put 14 hours in practice.Talk about Amitabh Bachan, it took him so many years for him to taste success in his career.

We say Sharukh Khan is a lucky person competing with Amitabh Bachan , but we are ignoring he took his set of risks in career, love life, and probably all personas of life. I came across his love story and realised how many of us would leave everything and follow their love against our family to walk that extra mile. He is one of those fellows how got his first break by chance, when he left an important audition and went to a beach to win back "Gauri" (she was there on a shoot and nearby there was an audition where he got his break .. unaware of the fact he just went for Gauri there .. but landed up gaining more than the risks). Even these days when i see him hosting award functions and he breaks a glass bottle with his head, i wonder doesnt he get scared what if a glass piece spoils his famous face. But people enjoy him doing such things and he is pleased impressing them.

Talk about celebs , talk about any average middle class person, those who can make things happen have a "Junoon:" -Passion for the things they want in their life.

Few words of motivation from Roadies 8 :

"Kuch kar gujarne ka junoon jahan hota hai..

Wahan Zindagi rehti hai .. Khuda hota hai ..

Joostjo agar ho .. tu safar khatam kahan hota hai ..

Yun tu har mod par manzil ka gumah hota hai .. "